You have no idea how mad pissed off I am with my mother right now! I hate her so much now! Urgh!
So what wonderful thing she did this time?
Well everyone knows how much I loooooove shoes! And I've a huge ass collection of shoes at home. That woman threw away more than half of my collection. Consisting of A LOT of my favourite flats.
Lately, I've been wearing a lot of heels but that doesn't mean I don't wear the flats anymore what?! She freaking threw away all my vintage oxford shoes, my sandals, my ballet flats.....even 4 different colors havaianas she also throw? Just cus lately I don't wear the flat havaianas I'm always wearing the high one. What the fuck. I'm so angry!!!!! Ill never be able to find a lot of shoes cus I got most from vintage stores. I wanna cry!!!!
If the shoes were taking too much space, can put in my room what! Or sell?! I know there'll be people who want it?! But no, she THREW THEM AWAY. Heartache max!!!
I cannot describe how much anger and sadness I have in me. I really loved every single pair so much?! I super love my denim slippers but that's gone too! I've no more flats thanks to the bitch. I already don't have much $ to spare unlike in the past.......how to buy shoes the same way I did?! Now I hardly spend $ on shoes lor........
I'm crying as I'm typing this......sigh. My precious precious shoes. It's like maybe 50 pairs?! Really not funny amount.
Wish my mom would fucking admit she's in the wrong and quit arguing with me. Am not gonna talk to her for a loooong time. Hate her!
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Hi, so sorry for you. :(
ReplyDeleteDo you know where you mum threw your shoes to? Maybe you can go there to pick them back. They're still somewhere out there if she only threw it recently. Plus if its a large amount it'll take a longer time to get rid of it I guess? Good luck, hope you get your shoes back!
WTH?? is your mum mentally sound.
ReplyDeletechill!
ReplyDeleteaww honey, tell me about it man. hate my parents for this sorta stuff as well!!!!!!!!!!! ):
ReplyDeleteaww im sorry to hear that! i love shoes too!! ... sigh i hope you earn enough to move to your own home soon... although that does sound quite bad as she's your mum and i shouldnt be saying such things... but still cant get why she would wanna throw stuff you bought with your hard earned cash... anyway, i love you tammy! don't let shit get you down! good luck! (:
ReplyDeleteHALLO VAINPOT. can you reply me now, n tell me what movie you wna watch.
ReplyDeleteHi! Chill chill .. i know you're angry and sad cause you're mum do it wilthout asking for permision.
ReplyDeletetry ask her whr she threw it maybe you can try go try search for it ... smile! dont cry ..
xoxo
OMG!!!!! :( :( and your previous post was called 'SHOES'
ReplyDeleteI know how you feel.
ReplyDeleteI think your mum is in the wrong, by throwing away your shoes before asking for permission.
She should have let you know about it. -___-
i feel your pain ):
ReplyDeleteomg la how can ur mum do that??! if that was my mom and i could not control myself, she would have gotten the biggest bitch fit of her life from yrs truly.
ReplyDeleteannoyin mum much
* I agree. your mom is a bitch.
ReplyDeleteomg i so know how you feel babe! My mum once threw away my entire makeup stuff (consisting of my brand new make up brushes from M.A.C, everythg she threw amted to $400+) because i left it on the dining table and god knows why but she assumed it was intended to be thrown. i came home and found out and was like @$#%$%^$#@!?!?!?! So damn angry, slammed the door and called up my bestfriend and cried for hours. But chill babe! Take a breather. This was what my friend told me, "If old ones don't go, new ones cant come." Dont worry! You'll find wayy nicer, better shoes than the ones disposed of, think of it as a blessing in disguise. Hope you feel a teeny bit better! xx
ReplyDeleteOmg.. i was like "how can anyone say that they hate their mum/parents?!" when i read your first line.
ReplyDeleteBut then i read on and i really sympathize with you. It's way too unreasonable of her to just do that without even asking you for permission. She could have at least sent a text or called you if you were outside.
Cheer up!! Hope you get over this soon :(
Oh no! That must have been awful :( Where did your mum throw it away at? If you're really desperate you could try and find it at the rubbish dumps, she must have placed them in a bag right?
ReplyDeleteIt's kinda weird how she chooses to throw them away instead of telling you to do something about it first or sell it away, i mean, it's really a waste to throw 50 pairs. I wouldn't be happy too. It's like that time she cleared out your wardrobe too?
ReplyDeleteI hope something works out, CHIN UP!
any idea where she threw it? maybe you can go look for it?
ReplyDeleteThat woman/bitch is your mother. Mind you.
ReplyDeleteomfg, i totally understand how you feel !! :( must be damn frustrating.
ReplyDeleteomg!!! I'd be super pissed if I were you too.
ReplyDeleteseriously no one will throw shoes just like that.. what the hell . whats wrong with her. i feel fucking angry for u. fucking wasted . is she mentally wrong or what. SERIOUSLY
ReplyDeleteI think your mum has some control/impulse issue. my mum did that too. but not to your mum's extent
ReplyDeleteAwww! I know! If it's me i would be as mad as you... and... ohmy. i can't describe the anger!!! Even as a reader, i feel sad and heartache for you as i liked your the shoes u owned! But i guess... u could reason out with her??? Cus she's still yr mum.. ;)
ReplyDeleteOmg, i understand how you feel. My mum did that to me once too. She threw away all my make up, half of my clothes & lingerie. Mums are crazy sometimes. I got v mad with her too at that time. Do you know where she threw them at? maybe you can still find them back, Just that they will be a lil dirty. Hope you get over it soon. (:
ReplyDelete*hugs*
ReplyDeletefuck i feel like scolding your mom la wth is wrong with her seriously. mad!
ReplyDeleteomg your mum's so bad! HOW COULD SHE EVEN THROW ALL THOSE STUFFS WITHOUT YOUR PERMISSION?!!!! HAVAIANAS THAT ARE LIKE COSTLY FOR A PAIR OF SLIPPERS, SHE THREW IT?!!!! OMG. I know how you feel, really......
ReplyDeletemy mum once threw away one of my bag that's a little rusty @ the buttons, but usable AND I WAS SO ANGRY ALR, I can't imagine how you feel now....Goddd, I pray for you to get over this soon cheerup babe!! :) :)
omg i totally understand. my dad loves throwing my stuff away too!! but i dont hate him.. i only hate that he throws my things away lol!
ReplyDeletejust because she's tammy's mom doesn't mean she is always right.
ReplyDelete'H' is right. I too know how it feels like when such things happen as I've been through it once. But hey, like 'H' said 'old things don't go, new things don't come', also, even though yr heart aches alot right now due to yr mom throwing out the 50 pairs of shoes, she's still yr mom, and shoes are just pieces of material things that can be replaced say, maybe who knows by even better stuff u find in the future? But u can't replace yr mom, she will always love u. so she threw away yr beloved 50 pairs of shoes that can't be found anymore, CRY WHINE AND MOVE ON. I'm sure she had good intentions at heart. Though I agree she shld have at least texted u to inform/ ask u first. Anyhow, what's done is done. Cheer up yeah?
ReplyDeleteur mum menopause??
ReplyDeleteOmfg my mom is like this too!!!! Srly fuck man! Cheer up tams <3
ReplyDeletedoes your mum read your blog
ReplyDeleteyour mother is throwing away money lah!
ReplyDeleteWhy did she threw them away?
ReplyDeleteIt's like they are bought with MONEY!!!!money!!!!
its just so weird to throw them away.
Cheer up. I hope you are feeling better. AND YES! She's in the wrong for assuming you dont want them anymore.
HUGS!!!
ur mum has no sense of the value of money.
ReplyDeletebring her to a psychatrist.. can be treated.
and im totally serious.
just criticising or complaining about her wont solve anything. cos on a darker note, it COULD get worse.
take cares girl!
I SECOND THIS
ReplyDeleteaiyah, all mothers are the same lah!
ReplyDeletethey like to throw away good things & leave the useless ones behind!
buy something to organize the home & she'll say it takes up space. what the heck?!
Oh dearie, 50 pairs of shoes is a huge amount. Well, I have no idea why your mum would do something like that. Perhaps when you've calmed down, you can talk to her about it and tell her to work things out with you before taking action? I mean..i don't understand my parents sometimes as well...like the way they can kick up a fuss over a minor issue. But you know, if your mum is someone who will listen, maybe you can try talking things out with her.
ReplyDeleteYou look pretty yes, but omg you look so old like 25, 26? instead of 19!
ReplyDeleteTie your hair up more often!
Stop it with that fucking she's your parent speech man. parents arent always right. i agree with omg!
ReplyDelete@fame.
ReplyDeletei guess youre tammys mother LOL
Stop trying to get on her good books.
ReplyDeleteFame is right about that being her mom. "Just because because she's tammy's mom doesnt mean she is always right." So if she's your mom, she is right?
Yes, it is ridiculous for her mom to have done that. But her very first pair of shoes, regardless if they are the one that her mom threw away, are her mom's money. Parents arent always right, who doesnt agree with that. But parents arent always wrong either. I dont deny that I never said that I hate my mom, but all in all, i still love her.
I have no comment about her scolding her mom, just her way of venting her anger. Stop adding fuel to the fire.